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Family Conflicts and the High Conflict Spouse

A divorce involving a high conflict personality can be more challenging than other divorces, because of the person’s inability to compromise or ever see the middle ground. People like this are called “High Conflict People” (HCP’s), and the divorce courts are full of them.

Are you glad you are not married to one of these people or are you? HCP’s seem very caring and sincere and it may take months or years before a legal professional can identify this personality disorder.  HCPs may cause enormous emotional pain and excessive financial costs to their spouse and children before this disorder is brought to light.

Bill Eddy, legal specialist of the High Conflict Institute, has given a list of

The High Conflict Personality Pattern of HCP Personalities

  1. Rigid and uncompromising, repeating failed strategies
  2. Unable to heal or accept a loss
  3. Negative emotions dominate their thinking
  4. Won’t  reflect on their own behavior
  5. Can’t empathize with others
  6. Preoccupied with blaming others
  7. Won’t accept any responsibility for problems or solutions

HCP’s stay unproductively connected to people through conflict and will continue to create conflict to maintain any sort of relationship, good or bad.  Since HCP’s undermine all relationships, they constantly repeat their same patterns and usually end up divorcing repeated times.  20-30% of all couples getting divorces have at least one HCP spouse.

According to the High Conflict Institute, HCPS are driven by four primary fees:

  1. Fear of being ignored
  2. Fear of being belittled or publicity exposure
  3. Fear of being abandoned
  4. Fear of being dominated, includes fear of losing control over you, the other spouse, their money/assets, or themselves

What can the spouse of an HCP do to help bring the family conflict or divorce to completion?

  1. Tell your attorney what your bottom line is and stay with your decision.
  2. Maximize any leverage you have and stay on the course.
  3. Choose your battles carefully.
  4. Everything must be in writing.
  5. Work on keeping total & consistent emotional detachment from the HCP.

Just remember the HCP feels that since you are no longer together, and since you know too much about him/her, you must be discredited so that no one will think that they are the problem!

You will need to learn some practical skills on communication and response to your HCP and also when & how to let your attorney deal with this situation, how to enforce your guidelines, and hopefully, your thoughtful and reserved conduct will result in the best possible outcome.

Nacol Law Firm P.C.
Dallas Divorce Attorneys

July 16th, 2025|

Contract Review: Proper Form to Prevent Future Breach

Before signing a contract, read through it carefully.  Have an attorney review the contract.  Make certain that you know what obligations are stated and/or implied.  If you are uncertain as to your duties and you sign the contract, you may be liable for a future unintentional breach of the contract.

Contract negotiations, especially in the context of important financial contracts, can be taxing and difficult at best.  An attorney can assist you with negotiations to ensure your needs and requirements are met.  Additionally, your attorney can properly draft and/or review the contract, explain to you your rights and duties under the contract, and make suggestions as to provisions which may be necessary to protect your best interest.

The following is a good guideline for contract review.  It is not an all-inclusive list, but may be used as a tool to assist with contract drafting and review:

  1. Make sure the language contained in the contract is clear and understandable. In most cases, limit the use of highly technical terms when possible.  Unnecessary legal wording may make the contract confusing, thus use regular wording to make sure the parties understand what the contract says and means.
  2. Give a clear and concise description of the goods and/or services to be received.
  3. Give a clear description of the amount of money or other consideration for the contract.
  4. If any payments are payable outside the U.S., make sure the payments are in U.S. dollars.
  5. Make sure the contract contains a specific time and place for performance.
  6. The contract should contain a method of providing notice of default and opportunity to cure default.
  7. Rights, obligations, and duties of every party should be clearly listed.  Each party’s responsibilities should be identified in understandable wording.
  8. Use clear and concise names when listing parties to the contract, including address, telephone number, fax number, and email addresses.
  9. Be sure you have a contact person for each party to the contract, including address, telephone number, fax number, and email addresses.
  10. Establish a date the contract is to begin and end.
  11. Make sure the contract contains all other important dates to the contract (milestones, deadlines, reports, etc.).  Use full dates.  Such dates should be clearly identified.
  12. The procedure for renewal of the contract should be clearly identified.
  13. If an employment contract, the procedure for termination of the contract should be clearly identified (termination for cause and/or termination at will).
  14. Indemnification, liquidated damages, attorney’s fees, waiver of contractor’s liability, waiver of statutes of limitation clauses should be incorporated if necessary or applicable.
  15. Establish the contract is governed by the laws of the State of Texas.
  16. Establish the venue for suit is in the county where the Company’s main office or parties signing are located or agree otherwise.
  17. If insurance is required, define the types and levels of coverage.
  18. Confidentiality provisions, if applicable, should be incorporated.
  19. Ensure Act of God or force majeure clauses are incorporated if necessary.
  20. Assignment by either party should be approved in advance in writing.
  21. Incorporate an Alternative Dispute Resolution clause, if required or desired.
  22. All appendices, exhibits, attachments, and schedules should be attached.
  23. Title and authority of person signing the contract should be properly stated and warranted.
  24. Spelling, formatting, grammar, punctuation and general appearance of the contract should be professional and accurate.

Preprinted form contracts should only be viewed as a starting point, not a final expression of the parties’ agreement.  Protection for all parties is usually minimal to non-existent in such pre-printed forms.  No pre-printed form can be expected to cover the particulars of all agreements between two or more specific parties.  Having an attorney review and negotiate pre-printed forms may prove prudent and smart.

It is imperative that the terms of a contract are fairly negotiated, properly drafted, and reviewed to ensure the contract meets the intentions of the parties.

July 8th, 2025|

Texas Condominium HOA’s and Foreclosure

A Texas condominium HOA ( Home Owner Association ) has more power than a Texas residential HOA to foreclosure on a unit. Foreclosure is a constant source of anxiety for many condominium owners that may have exiting outstanding assessment fees. If you are a condominium owner be sure to pay timely your HOA assessment fees.

An HOA may foreclose on your condominium judicially or non-judicially through a deed of trust. Read your Texas HOA By-laws carefully. The By-laws will state what power the HOA has and the notices required before the foreclosure process may be implemented. A few key things to keep in mind regarding Condominium HOA Foreclosures are:

  1. A Condominium HOA may foreclose if you have outstanding assessment fees;
  2. A Condominium HOA may not foreclose if the debt you owe is solely based on HOA fines;
  3. The HOA Bylaws will dictate to whether the association can foreclose on your property judicially or non-judicially;
  4. After a foreclosure, you will have 90-days to redeem your property from the HOA or a third-party buyer;
  5. The HOA must send you notice of default for any outstanding assessment fees prior to foreclosure;

If a HOA files for a judicial foreclosure on your condominium, which is utilized as a residence, then you must be given two separate notices per Texas Property Code § 52.001. First a notice of default, which gives you 20-days to cure any outstanding debt. After the notice of default, a notice of sale must be sent 21-days prior to the foreclosure sale. Both notices are mandatory for a judicial foreclosure sale.

If the notices are not properly given or if the HOA wrongfully forecloses on your condominium there is recourse. A wrongful foreclosure cause of action if successful will entitle you to monetary damages but it will be an uphill battle to regain the property if the property is sold and the 90-day redemption period has expired. It is important to know that if a foreclosure has taken place, even if wrongful, it will be difficult to recover the property, especially if a third party purchases the unit, and takes title at the foreclosure sale. It is important to realize that suing an HOA involves inherent risks. Many HOAs are not solvent and obtaining a money judgment against the association may be worthless if the HOA has no property or other assets subject to execution.

The wisest course of action is to contact a lawyer as soon as possible if you have been subjected to a wrongful foreclosure proceeding. It is far easier to stop a foreclosure during the process than it is to regain title to your property after it has been sold.

Julian Nacol, Attorney
Nacol Law Firm P.C.

July 8th, 2025|

Infidelity or Adultery in a Texas Divorce

In Texas, adultery or infidelity may play a significant role in how a divorce unfolds, impacting asset division in a divorce and even custody issues to a certain extent. Here’s how adultery generally affects the divorce process in Texas:

1. Grounds for Divorce:

  • No-Fault Divorce: Texas allows for “no-fault” divorces, where neither spouse has to blame the other for the breakdown of the marriage. Commonly, the reason cited is “insupportability,” which means that the marriage has become insupportable due to discord or conflict of personalities that destroys the legitimate ends of the marital relationship and prevents any reasonable expectation of reconciliation.
  • Fault-Based Divorce: Adultery is also one of the grounds for a fault-based divorce in Texas. If one spouse can prove the other’s infidelity, it can influence the divorce proceedings, particularly in financial settlements and custody decisions. The Court of Appeals has given the following definition of Adultery: “the voluntary sexual intercourse of a married person with one not the spouse.” In re S.A.A., 279 S.W.3d 853, 856 (Tex. App.—Dallas 2009, no pet.)

2. Impact on Division of Assets:

  • In Texas, the court divides marital property based on what is “just and right.” While this typically starts with the presumption of a 50/50 split, proven adultery can lead the court to award a more favorable division to the non-adulterous spouse. This is because the court may consider the circumstances and factors under which the property was acquired and the behavior of the parties during the marriage. Such factors include: Such factors include (1) the nature of the marital property, (2) the relative earning capacity and business opportunities of the parties, (3) the parties’ relative financial condition and obligations, (4) the parties’ education, (5) the size of separate estates, (6) the age, (7) health, and (8) physical conditions of the parties, (9) fault in breaking up the marriage, (10) the benefit the innocent spouse would have received had the marriage continued, and (11) the probable need for future support. Murff v. Murff, 615 S.W.2d 696, 698 (Tex. 1981).

3. Impact on Child Custody and Visitation:

  • While adultery by itself does not necessarily impact custody arrangements, the circumstances surrounding the adultery might. For instance, if adulterous behavior also involved other conduct that could be deemed harmful to the children it could influence the court’s decisions regarding custody and visitation rights. More common repercussions for Adultery or Infidelity in a divorce are what the Court’s call a  “morality clause”. This provision usually prohibits one parent from having a romantic third-party guest stay in the house while the children are present from 8:00 pm to 9:00 am the next day.

4. Proving Adultery:

  • Proving adultery in a divorce case requires evidence that convinces the court of the likelihood that infidelity occurred. Direct evidence is not necessarily required; circumstantial evidence that suggests the likelihood of both opportunity and inclination to commit adultery might suffice. The burden of proof is the preponderance of the evidence, thus just a little more than 50%. It should be known that actions of adultery and infidelity are still probably even after separation and during the divorce litigation. 

Adultery and Infidelity are not as damaging in the modern era, though it is completely fact intensive and dependent on the Judge in your case. Some Judges take Adultery in a Texas Divorce more seriously than others. It is a liability to mitigate if it has occurred. 

Julian Nacol
Nacol Law Firm P.C.
Dallas Divorce Attorney
(972) 690-3333

July 2nd, 2025|

Forming a Texas Business Corporation

A corporation is a legal entity that is granted a charter recognizing it as a separate legal entity having its own privileges, and liabilities distinct from those of its shareholders.  When it is formed it becomes a separate entity from the people who own the stock of the corporation.  For this reason, a corporation’s actions are made by the corporation and not by an individual person.  This legal distinction is what separates the liability of the Texas corporation from the individual and is a major consideration in deciding to form a corporation.

Anyone can form a corporation in Texas.  A corporation can form another corporation.  Once the corporation is formed, the entity formed is responsible for all actions done in the corporate name.  The new entity is required to file state and federal taxes and acquire any licenses to do business in the name of the corporation.  The corporation can purchase insurance, own real estate and cars and other assets or personal property as if were a natural person.  It is responsible for actions both good and bad done in its name.  If a corporation fails, shareholders normally only stand to lose their investment, and employees will lose their jobs, but neither will be further liable for debts that remain owing to the corporation’s creditors.

Corporations can exercise human rights against real individuals and the state, and they may be responsible for human rights violations.  There are five core characteristics of a business corporation:

•Legal personality
•Limited liability
•Transferable shares
•Centralized management under a board structure
•Shared ownership by contributors of capital

Generally, the corporation files articles of incorporation with the government, laying out the general nature of the corporation, the amount of stock it is authorized to issue, and the names and addresses of directors.  Once the articles are approved, the corporation’s directors meet to create bylaws that govern the internal functions of the corporation, such as meeting the procedures and officer positions.

•Some of the advantages of a corporation are as follows:

•Shareholders have limited liability for the corporation’s debts or judgments against the corporation.

•Generally, shareholders can only be held accountable for their investment in stock of the company.

•A Texas corporation may deduct the cost of benefits it provides to officers and employees.

•A corporation pays 15% federal income tax on taxable income up to $50,000; 25% tax on income from $50,001 – $75,000; 34% tax on income from $57,001 – $100,000; 39% tax on income from $100,001 – $335,000; and 34$ tax on income over $335,001

There are some disadvantages to a corporation.  The process of incorporating a business in Texas may require more time and money than other forms of organizations and the corporation may be monitored by federal, state and some local agencies and as a result require have more paperwork to properly comply with regulations.  Incorporating may also result in higher overall taxes in some circumstances.

For answers to your questions on forming a business corporation in Texas, contact Dallas business attorney Mark Nacol with the Nacol Law Firm, P.C.

June 24th, 2025|

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